Everyone has underwent rejection and nothing is trivial when it comes to this. Rejection feels like you’re scooped out of the world and thrown into another dimension and you totally feel that you have no control of it. Whether it be work matters, relationship matters or even just simple requests that were turned down, it’s …
Trashing Out Negative Emotions
Negative emotions is the root of all evils so to speak, they are one of the major causes for decrease in self-esteem, life dissatisfaction and maybe even procrastinating on something you’ve been wanting to do. Good news is you can eliminate them by realizing the following points that may contribute to trashing out negativity – …
Things You Wouldn’t Want To Regret
To look back and regret something we didn’t do is an end thought that we wouldn’t want to really experience, but yes it happens but another yes to the fact that it may not always do just as long as we’re aware of what we want and the reality that if we want to achieve …
Living A Life That Matters
We were all born to make a difference in this world, that’s living life with a purpose – living a life that matters, and whether or not you’re still searching for it or probably have found it but quite unsure if that’s really how you’re made to be – trust the process because in the …
How To Stop Being A People Pleaser
My entry for today tackles people pleasing. As they say anything in moderation is fine but exceeding it can be just as bad. So here’s my take – If someone says jump off the bridge, will you? Being a people pleaser can actually work against you or have the opposite effect that you expected it …
Sustaining and Keeping Your Motivation Up
Successfully accomplishing one goal after another is staying and keeping one’s motivation sustained and running. There may be tasks that you may dislike yet, but motivation keeps you going and know that each particular task contributes towards a greater goal. Here’s some points on staying motivated – Believe that you’re doing this for a good …
The Power of Flexible Thinking
Rigid and formed minds are precursors to a battle lost. Once you begin thinking that you have all the answers, you might as well prepare yourself on treading towards dangerous grounds of self-entitlement. Once you get set in your ways, you’re already part of history. To get the most out of life it’s always best …
The Essence of Real Leadership
Humility is a virtue and personally I define a good leader by this trait. Humble leaders make the most effective leaders however it seems that the art of humility is overlooked in leadership programs nowadays. Humility consists of an awareness on how one views himself/herself, selfless teaching to others, and affirming his/her people’s strengths. These …
The Broken Heart Syndrome and Getting Over It
You get your heart broken then you either start to become bitter or better. Situation familiar? That’s the broken heart syndrome. You see love is a complex situation to be in, at the same time that it can either be the best thing that ever happened to you or the worst for those who have …
On Second Chances
What exactly does it really mean when you give another a second chance? When are second chances applicable? If you find yourself asking this question in your past relationship, then the chances that you two have dealt with tremendous challenges are likely. Most especially if one got hurt more. However what happens if you still …