Tag: love

The Broken Heart Syndrome and Getting Over It

You get your heart broken then you either start to become bitter or better. Situation familiar? That’s the broken heart syndrome. You see love is a complex situation to be in, at the same time that it can either be the best thing that ever happened to you or the worst for those who have been badly hurt. Many times…

On Second Chances

What exactly does it really mean when you give another a second chance? When are second chances applicable? If you find yourself asking this question in your past relationship, then the chances that you two have dealt with tremendous challenges are likely. Most especially if one got hurt more. However what happens if you still care about the other and…

New Beginnings

Listen to the sound and read on… Visualize a whiteboard filled with writings which you want to erase and write something new, that’s how beginning over again is figuratively but how about a chapter in your life? Restarting one entails closing the past and deciding on breaking free from the baggage that seems to be holding you back from moving…

Advice on Tough Love

Tough love is difficult and at times a lonely road we must journey upon. Stepping away from full control and releasing our want to help someone dear to us most especially when it comes to dealing with them in relation to drug or alcohol dependency, which is rampant nowadays, is indeed very difficult and heart-wrenching but at times needed having…

Mending Our Inner Brokenness

We’re all broken. We’re all flawed. We’re all vulnerable at a single point in our fragile lives. Brokenness in my personal view serves as an entry into new beginnings, if we allow it to, a path towards wholeness again. We have all had our own share of pain and disappointment in this oh so amazing phenomenon called life. Know that…

How Expectations Should Be

We have all had our own fair share of expectations that never materialized, expectations that caused us so much frustration, maybe even expectations others have put on ourselves. I write about expectations today on my blog simply because it seems that we still hang on to it like a low-lying fruit that’s ready to eat all the time, what if…

The Love Story of Chance and Regret

The band Hiroshima carries on an award winning song entitled The Door is Open, I attached the video of it below, one of its lines apparently always catches my attention when I play it which says – “So many times the world just seems to let you down but I know you’re here to turn my life around. So many…

Finding Answers to The “What-Ifs” of Life

I’m pretty sure you’ve had your “what-ifs” moments, in all aspects be it life, love or career but bear in mind that it’s fine to have these wandering mind moments but the end point should always be avoiding the “could-haves, would-haves and should-haves”, which only leads one to regret resulting to misery which we dislike to happen. At the end…

Letting Go of the Need to Control

Surrendering to the need to control is probably one of the most difficult move one will make in his or her lifetime but in order for us to live it to the fullest the effort of realizing the beauty of surrendering is essential. It pays to take time to realize the following – That we do not have to be…

What Matters In Relationships

Relationships are probably one of the most feared encounters of all time — starting one or getting into one. Question is, should it be feared or not? Answer will be subjective and it will vary based on how it was molded to be in one’s life, but honestly I think it should be welcomed rather than feared. What then are…